the guy was just having a really bad day and used a slang ter…spondent push to eliminate phrases like, “I’m having trouble with boys,” from the American lexicon. We don’t say anything when Taylor Swift refers to grown men as “boys” or even when Katie Perry refers to grown women as “girls.” Maybe the guy was just having a really bad day and used a slang term he’d grown up with. Not every use of language is evidence of what we want it to mean. Regional differences and the vast size of the American country also make for an extremely non-cohes…